Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Valium Drug_uses Help! Husband Vs. Mother?

Help! Husband vs. Mother? - valium drug_uses

K, my situation is complex!
My base of operations. No, I'm married 2 years, but 10 who live together. My mother had cancer, I bought a bigger house, he moved with his consent, then a friend ... More than a year of conflict, soft things, the marriage went crazy, conflicts increasingly, we are all control freaks, * the major flaws: The misuse of rules. Valium and Mary Jane, her mother has never approved in whole or his drug use more than they now blame my mother ... He has made proposals to a friend .... Marriage after ...
Only a total disaster.
I love him, but do not trust him.
I'm not going to work or sadomasochistic h (SP)? It's my fault, and my mother ...
I am a mother of a child. She looked after me for years after an accident ... debilitating
Who should I choose?

Mari always in the first place?

Much more, the story, but reads like a novel.

10 comments:

PARIS said...

I think that a mother and her husband take a Valium and smoke some Mary Jane together and forget all your problems together. LOL

Or use the God you know what you have that kind of situation. His appeal to your sixth sense, intuition. If you have one, now is the time to use it ....
Good Luck

Kacky said...

What your mother is not a part of the picture, or do you want this man in your life?

Kia Sister 1- DUCK said...

Dude! Wake up and smell the Mary Jane!

This is not the fault of their mothers. It looks like a total idiot, and you can stay. You need to grow. Or to leave or end the complaints about their behavior. It's easy.

You leave hime smoking marijuana in the house you live in the cancer stem cells mounted. That's really smart. It should go elsewhere, where it healthy for them. It is a great way to treat your mother.

BonnieLe... said...

Only my opinion, but if people on drugs and suggestions - I do not see how this plays his mother. It seems to be used as an excuse for their behavior. Your mother will always be your mother - you have to decide whether you really need him, and his mistakes. The apology will not stay together. Action. He must stop the medication, and you can then decide the next step.

Good luck

BonnieLe... said...

Only my opinion, but if people on drugs and suggestions - I do not see how this plays his mother. It seems to be used as an excuse for their behavior. Your mother will always be your mother - you have to decide whether you really need him, and his mistakes. The apology will not stay together. Action. He must stop the medication, and you can then decide the next step.

Good luck

kazzadan... said...

Well first off do not think l should never choose between his mother and her husband, but they said he weighed all the positive and negitive aspects of his mother and his marriage. Like addiction, it is much help if you want to get it proposals some.The that a friend is a concern, though. You think it was because I was so frustrated with his situation as a whole? I'm not making excuses for him by all means, only to find the reason for their behavior. The fact that you said that all lovers of control makes it harder than I suppose everyone is probably thinking is always right. You say you are a child of the mother, and everything is fine with what your husband is being treated fairly as their mum.Only the importance of marriage can decide for you. Her husband is also a long, hard look at marriage and see what is important to him. In a perfect world, we agree on all of us, but unfortunately there is no such thing, then we will all need to work together. All these problems are not insolubleshould be solved by you, your husband and finally her mother. Personally, I could not live with my mom, because I know that it could not intervene, and this will cause problems in my marriage, but to each their own I guess. There is the old adage that blood is thicker than water, but really in this case m not sure it applies. Personally, I think you married your husband for better or for worse, and your mother will always be your mother, but are not allowed to influence their decisions in their marriage. I understand she was the one for you when you need it, but that's not what we do mothers? L, at least everything I want for the happiness of my children, who, as they do not depend on receiving this, one disturbing. I'm for you, I think they all have a difficult road ahead, but only you are the best way for you to decide. We help them in choosing the right one. Good luck with everything

Babe said...

Parents are important, but sometimes to save their marriage with her husband before her parents. Maybe you can help your husband to overcome their problems. Depends on what you do. Would save the marriage? Either you have all tried to do the right thing, but it does nothing? Sometimes when you do and the fact that not one do something. I am sorry for your situation. If you have children involved. Please consider your marriage, for it is most affected by divorce. Good luck!

mileycyr... said...

Please call no e-mail dr.phill tell the whole story its a emergacy bold capital letters. if not, then Cal was the only place to him very quickly in the fallow and when hes was on drugs, which are moving behind you guys for debt, if not for him to buy

Kari said...

You can not two families living together in a house. And when you married your husband take seriously for better or worse than the law? You and your spouse, to solve their problems themselves. It is to his family and now in the foreground. Perhaps it can tackle after work between you two things between him and the mother. Good luck!

buxomkit... said...

Her husband is in the process of finding a solution if you want to fix this, you're the one to give to have the majority. I know it sucks, but true. The questions are: Do we really need to abuse drugs move in front of her mother? Have you moved any major problems for the mother? Did your mother influence, as with your husband? If your husband wants to you to be happy? If your husband loves you, you have to understand that a sick mother to come, but they also know if you are successful again. If the drug is not your husband before marriage, what is new, that was a problem. You have to go a long way. To start, you should ask your husband what he wants to work from there.

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